Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Trees

I love trees.  I really really do.  I want them to look as natural as possible.
I have a huge elm in my back yard.  It came with the house I bought many many years ago.  When I looked at the house in March, I thought, "Oh no, a big dead tree to get rid of".  When we moved in in June, it was all leafed out and beautiful.  (kinda like this one, but thicker)
But...it was probably not the best tree for where it is.  I have spent many, many hours trimming it up as far as I could reach each summer, filling up my green bin, then doing it again the next week, for a big hunk of the summer.  It hangs a little over the fence of two neighbors.  One, who has a back yard that is just full of junk, it in no way inconvenienced in the least.  Not that he hasn't still chopped at it occasionally.  I don't know why, other than he didn't want his murdering dog and its friends to have any shade while they were out there 24/7.  The jerk.The other, who moved in a few years ago, should not have any plants that are not plastic.  They consider all falling leaves etc. as just a big mess.  Yes it does drop some leaves in his yard.  Yes, if he is too close to that side, branches might be in his way.  And it may make it harder to see fireworks on the 4th of July.  But it also keeps his house/yard/dogs cooler in the summer.  I know it keeps my house way cooler in the summer.


Ok, so there have been times I have actually hired someone to trim it, since I can only reach the very bottom branches that grow low each summer.  Did I mention the wood is hard as nails too?  Early on I really did not have a clear idea of what to look for when hiring someone.  The first guy I hired in the early 80's, because he frequented the place I worked and I had a big crush on him.  Did he do a good job?  No idea.  I can't remember, and am not sure I would have known the difference then.


A few years later, no probably more like 12 years or so, I know a little bit more and get three estimates.  I am shocked at how much it is, but decide to go with the middle one.  Take time off work, move potted plants from under, pen up animals...and they call and cancel.  Say they need to reschedule.  They never do, and I go with the cheapest one.  I was not very happy with the work they did.


Next time I get 3 bids, and this time I am looking for an arborist.  I decide it will be worth it to pay more and get someone that really knows what they are doing.  First person comes right out, and we talk and they say $350.  That's about what I planned on.  The next two can't come on weekends or late after noon when I can be here, so I never meet them.  #2 was $700.  #3 was $1400.  Quite the range huh?  Did not want to automatically go with the cheapest, but the other two were so much more, I said ok to the $350.  Take time off, move plants, get up early, pen up animals, and wait, and wait....They never show or call.  I hated to go right to the $700. person that I never met, so I get another bid.  I actually met this one, I think it was like $875ish.  A lot, but in the ball park, I had met him, and he could do it Thurs.  I was not that happy with it.


So two years ago, I am looking again.  Now I have a plan.  I will look for an arborist with good reviews, have them come 3 years in a row, then every other year.  One in the area, with good reviews would not go to my zip code which is really not that far away from his.  But I found another with a lot of great reviews.  Came out on a Sat. to give me an estimate.  Seemed pretty good, but the estimate was $1400.  I know, I had gotten one like that what, about 4 years before.  With inflation, and tree growth, maybe that was reasonable, but too much for me.  I said, then just do 3/4 of it.  The back part I don't see as much that is not hanging over my compulsive neighbors fence, can wait until next time.  He says no, he won't do a half ass job.  He would do it for $800, if he can do it when he has another job in the area.  I say great, just call me with a couple days notice.  So he calls me at 6:00 pm on a rainy night, said he could do it the next day.  I half expected it to still be raining, but it wasn't and he came.  Mashed some of the stuff I didn't have enough notice to move out from under neath, and mashed some of the plants growing in the ground under neath, but over all was a decent job.


So last year I expected to have him out again, but kept putting off calling. Between how much I hate to make phone calls, how depressed I was about my murdered ducks, and how much pain I was starting to have each day, Winter (my preferred time to trim it), came and went.  So felt I really had to do it this year.  Supposedly he had started "training" it the way it should grow, and I wanted to build on that.  I didn't bother with any more estimates this time.  My thoughts were, if he did it almost 2 years ago for $800, and it needs a lot less than last time, even with inflation, maybe he could do what it needed AND start to shape my pine tree that had not been professionally trimmed since the early 80's.  Plus some evergreen out front of a different type, that has outgrown its space, but I don't want removed, I asked if he could at least get it off the roof, where I could not reach it.  I said that part first, then we looked at the elm, then I asked him to start to shape the pine, and get the dead stuff off.  He says $1200.  I really could not see going over $1000.  but also did not want to look for someone else again, so I said, "how about it you do less work on the pine".  He said $1000.  A lot, but I said ok.  


Been spending time each day moving potted plants and stuff out from under the two trees.  I did not take time off, I hadn't been here last time, and it worked out ok.  I did get up early to be dressed and talk a minute before I left for work.  Having any work done here makes me kind of nervous, esp. paying a lot, having living trees have surgery on them, and knowing some plants under them will have some damage.  So mostly just looking forward to it being over, and getting any sticks they missed cleaned up, trimming the broken plants under them, putting potted plants back, etc.  And hoping it does not look too bare for my taste.  (although my fussy neighbor was excited they were here, he was hoping they had come to chop the tree down!!!)  That pissed me off.  It was here long before him.  If it bothered him that much he should not have bought that house.  Never mind the nice plants that were growing in his yard, he chopped out...messy don't you know.


So I get home, nervous and go 
look.  First the evergreen what ever big shrub on my roof has not been touched.  The elm looks pretty good.  A place I thought he was training a little branch to fill in had been chopped off, and another place that had too many crossed branched to do all at once last time, still had a lot.  I expected a couple of those to have been trimmed this time.  But over all, the elm is ok.  3 of the alstromeria (kinda like these)
 plants growing under had just a little damage.  The one that is just starting to bloom is about half damaged, and the other one looks like it was tap danced on.  


On to the pine.  It looks like that got about 92% of the dead stuff off, but that looks like the only thing they did at all on that one!  All the really heavy branches that are way too high for me to reach that look like they could break off jagged any time...looks like none were touched.


I am disappointed.  I expected for $200. less than he started with, I would get a little less work.  It looks like I got a whole lot less.  Even knowing $1000. was kinda a lot for tree trimming, I don't feel like I got $1000. worth of work.  He wanted to come by and pick up the check tomorrow.  So again I am up early to be dressed before he shows.  I could tell him I am not happy, but by now his crew and equipment are nowhere close to here.  I have nothing in writing.  That's how he did it last time, and it worked out, so I thought it would this time.  When I said do $200. less, all I have is my idea of what that looks like, vs his.  So I probably won't demand he come do more.  I will just be unhappy, try and do more on the pine myself the one branch than I can reach, and hope the others don't break in the next two years until I hire someone again.  And I guess I will have to do more looking, much as I hate to start from scratch.  If he had done what I was expecting I would have just called in two years, and said come do what the elm needs, then work  on what the pine needs up to $1000. and we can do some more the next time.  After nothing for so many years, doing a little each time would start to get it looking nice.  I love the tree, and its healthy, but has no shape at all, and I had really hoped for at least a little improvement.  I am sad and disappointed.


I was so looking forward to starting to get things back in order out back this weekend, and not having to think about the trees, just enjoy them, for a couple years.  Then move on to the next project I need to take care of.  

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Meaning of Poop Colors

Hey, I said Random, and never promised it would be pretty.


http://www.puristat.com/constipation/bowelcolor.aspx

Friday, December 30, 2011

A Solitary Women

Again the girl from work tried to make me feel bad about not being more social.  I'm not.  Sue me.  Where is it written that I have to?  
I am not that good with people. I know sometimes its good to be with them, other than the 40 hrs. at work.  Like it does not take me a while to recover from that togetherness. Sometimes I am, and sometimes its good.  But often its so exhausting and uncomfortable for me I won't make myself do more of it.


Its been a while since I have had a best friend.  Its too hard to get another one.  I don't have the will, or skills. 


The perfect about of socializing for me would be dinner with someone nice and fun almost every Friday.
Breakfast out with someone maybe two Sundays a month.  Attending a  play with someone maybe 3 times a year.  Attending a concert with someone maybe 3 times a year.  A short trip with someone 2 or 3 times a year.


That would be great!  I am getting a lot less than that now, and can't seem to get it right.  The only people interested in that much interaction with me, are people that I can't take that much of. No one else interested, or else they want way more than that, so I don't do anything with them.
  
Its all a happy balance.  This women has never really been alone.  She has lived with someone 47 of her 48 years, and feels the need to socialize several times each week.  Acts like there is something wrong with me that I don't want or need it.
  
For quite a while I have been doing a good job of not letting other people make me feel bad about myself, but she manages to do it frequently.  What makes it harder to take is people seem to love her.  I know she has way more friends than I ever will, so it feels like the problem must be me then.
  
I fit in so much better with my co-workers at my last job, but other things made me leave.  I just don't fit personality wise with most of my co-workers.  Yet that is were most of my time and energy is spent.


I was looking forward to a nice relaxing weekend home alone, before I possibly ventured back out into the world on Mon, or Tues. 4 day week end for me.  Instead I end my work week feeling somehow deficient....again.  Thanks.

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Dentist

I have been going to the same dental practice for over 30 years.  With what I paid the first two dentists retired, and I am now on the the 3rd owner of the practice.


I think he is pretty good.  My time with the hygienist started with dentist #2, so we go way back too.  She is 1 month younger than me.  She is good too.  


But that does not stop me from being practically sick before every visit, and getting hopefully phantom pains in my teeth when the appt. gets close.


I pay extra for the nitrous oxide.  I can't do it with out it.  Well, if its a basic, not super deep cleaning, I can do that, but that's the extent of it.


I brush and floss, eat decent, take vitamins, and have never smoked.  Yet a few years back started getting some gum problems.  I should not have them, as good as I am about oral hygiene.  But I do.  This was my second root planing/deep cleaning. They said I might have a genetic predisposition to problems.
My Mom had all her teeth out by 35.  I don 't know how well she cared for her teeth.  But she probably did not get enough calcium, and she SMOKED!.  


I may have been born with weak teeth because of that.  Thanks Mom.  I was taught to brush, but not to floss.  I think I had 10 cavities when I first started going to the dentist.  Of course I ate a lot more candy back then.  But friends got away with that ok.  So I started out with a few strikes against me.  


The dentist thinks a crown should be replaced soon...again, but that will be in 2012.  For now I am done for 4 whole months.


Except for the brushing, flossing, tongue cleaning, little poky brush things, and mouthwash.  My routine gets longer and longer.  I get to bed/work later and later.
I don't want to loose my teeth.  They are not perfect, but I want to keep them, so I go regularly trying to stave off worse damage/pain.  Its been almost 5 hrs. since I got the Novocain, and still feel too numb to eat without wearing most of it.


At least the worst is over for a while.  For me the worrying about it, and the shots are the worst part, and that tension, that it could conceivably hurt again at any minute.  How do people do any of it with out gas?  I don't understand that.  They would be peeling me off the ceiling without it.

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Mice

I have house mice.  I have not always had them.  Usually I get a few in the winter, eventually get rid of them, then spend months cleaning up after them.  It takes me forever to clean every surface, shelf, drawer, move the furniture to clean behind, move the appliances, etc.  Don't even mention the garage, that is never totally rid of evidence.  So sometimes I may have them a little while before I figure out that they are back.

I don't think I had them last winter.  But then I got some this summer.  That was worrisome.  If it isn't even winter yet and they are here, what will happen when  it gets cold?  Well, I got rid of a few, thought they were gone.  But they were just out gathering all their friends and relatives.  Now there are lots of them.

I can't kill anything.  I just want them to not be in my house. I use a live catcher and release them outside.  I used to drive a mile and release them to the edge of a canyon.  It got to be too much trouble, plus I am pretty sure the people living close to the release spot did not appreciate it.

My best catcher is no longer working as well.  Don't know if the device itself is wearing out, or they have warped it trying to get out, or if I am catching the same ones over and over, and now they know how things work.  Lately one that didn't work well for me before is catching a lot.  Its a single catch, with fewer air holes than the others, but I am using it, and happy each time I catch another.
Unless its a baby. I hate catching the tiny babies.  They are actually kind of cute, with their tiny noses and tiny hands.  They just look at you or start washing their little faces.  I don't know how old they have to be to survive outside alone. But when its nighttime, I worry that even if they are old enough for daytime temps, will they freeze at night?  But I am afraid to wait until morning to release them, so I send them out, wish them good luck.

Last time I had them bad, they were going after the cat food.  It was bad before I realized, then trying to tell the cat she had 2 minutes to eat it all before I put it away did not go over well.  This time they have been eating bunny hay.  The bunnies kind of need it to munch on all day.

Since I realized they were back I have been keeping a lot of things in big plastic bins.  My lunch bag is in the dryer, my purse is in a bin.  I am late for work more now, trying to get everything together at the last minute.

Could they just leave now that I am leaving less good stuff for them to get at?  Oh, no.  They are eating my scented candles, and potpourri now.

I kinda thought a new garage door might keep them out because it would fit much closer than the old wooden one.  But coughing up the  $600. or so it would cost would probably not totally solve the problem.  It might well not be the only way they get in.  Obviously I don't know all the ways they get in, or hopefully I could get them fixed.  But I am starting to think there may be holes in the house under the siding.  I guess I would see any that open right into a room, but if its under the bath tub or in the garage, I would not.  Plus new siding, and all that should be done if I ever get that done....new windows, doors, upgrade the electric, plumbing, etc.  Is way out of my range now.  This is where having a handy partner would be wonderful.  Free labor, do a little at a time as I can afford it.  But the hire someone to do it all at once thing,  I can't see that ever happening.

So I have mice.  Its an embarrassing dirty secret.  I feel gross, and disgusting. I am not much of a cook anyway, but I keep getting flack from people at work that I am not doing more cooking, bringing homemade stuff to pot lucks, or baking deserts, etc.  They don't want anything from my kitchen, really.  But I am not about to tell them the mouse part of why not.  Just feeding my self is  harder than usual.  Wipe up the counter, wipe every thing I use off, and never turn my back for a second.  Yeah right.

I think I am gaining on them, but not sure.  Maybe they will keep coming right back in and bringing friends with them.  I know they are cold and hungry, but now at least, there is a lot more good stuff to eat outside than there is inside.  .
It will be almost 4 months before its warn enough they hopefully will  prefer outside, if ever.
Go away mousies...Please!

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Link post #2

More links to check out.

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http://www.fatwallet.com/

http://livinggreendesignsolutions.com/index.htm

http://clutterology.com/

http://www.barefoothealth.net/

http://www.etchedinmyheart.com/default.asp

http://bunnybytes.com/cgi-bin/start.cgi

http://www.extrabux.com/

Sawdust Art Festival

I didn't go this year.  But notes on past years to remind myself.

2008 I had a coupon and paid $6.50.  Don't remember what I paid in 2009.  I think that was the last year I went.

Its best not to wear sandals, unless you like hunks of saw dust in them.

Do not push your luck with parking.  They show NO mercy.  If you park at the meters, you must feed them until 7:00.